Monday, March 30, 2009

__I NEED ADVICE AND RESPECT__

I duno whr I should begin. My life now is quit miserable. Maybe I was the one yg create all the problems and mess. Skrg nie maybe klau ada yg perasan, Im more alone n I seldom talk. Sy berfikir bha tu. Klau di rumah, I kinda dlm bilik and all. If outside I'll be alone too. I need time alone and think. Mcm2 jd skrg nie. Byk gila my personal problems now. I hope i can cope up wif all of it. I need advice actually from all of you. I really feel I'm in the middle of nowhere now.
1st, my family problem. Ive just lost my 1st grandson yesterday. I still cant believe I had a grandson tapi sy ttp terima dia but belum smpt jumpa lg, he passed away already. Dahlah post morterm x dpt buat cepat2, kesian budak tu. Baru jak 9 days old. Kesian. May God blessed his soul. Remember dear, eventho 'nenek' x pernah jmpa kmu and i dunno ur name but I'll always remember you cuz u've been part of us. Amen.
2nd, still my family problem. I duno wht 2 say 2 her. Dia yg plg rapat wif me la if my cuzzen yg pompuan. Kmi2 ja msa tu. She's 5 years older den me. She told me about another cuzzen yg pernah couple dgn dia dlu2. Ingat lg sy msa tu, I was the 'akak postman'. Heehee. Dia ni cuzzen belah my mum pnya datuk n d guy is 1 of our relatives la. Sma kpg. Rumah dia sebelah rmh kmi. Long story short. He left her for anothr woman. Now, after few years, he told my other cuzzen yg dia menyesal kawin wif d wife. He menyesal kasi tinggal c Adel. After dos fucking years bha, anak dah 3 org bru tau menyesal? Jenis lelaki apakah itu kwn2? He left her when she really need him last time. My cuzzen told him dat pa guna nak menyesal skrg nie? Dua2 dah ada keluarga sendiri. Biarlah pa yg dey pernah kongsi jd sweet memories. Mmg betul kan pa dia ckp? She asked me bout dis. I said yeah, she was right. I told her she didnt lost nythng. My othr cuzzen yg rugi. Adel baik sgt2 dgn dia. She even waited 4 him for like few years tp he blum lg nmpk pa2. I hope ive given d correct advice. Korg agree x?
3rd, my own personal problem. Ntah knp I feel i wanna share it wif all of u. I noe u guys tau kan siapa lelaki yg plg rapat wif me? I think x perlu la sy mention sapa but i noe u guys noe sapa ait? For me he's my mirror. Dia btl2 reflect me. He noes my way of thinking. Yup. Mmg sy syg dia. Sy syg dia mcm sy syg Jonat n Georgy. Tapi I dun understand y people x phm our situation. Tolonglah phm bleh ka? I dun hve my bestfrens wif me hre. Dats y i turn 2 him on everythng. Skati jak ckp yg bukan2 psl kmi. Kmi pn ada perasaan bha. Jgn la buat mcm tu. Maybe korg nmpk kmi slalu bersama so u guys assume we have dis special romance feelings n romantic relationship but actually xda. Kmi rapat as gud frens. Kmi even more den bestfrens. Mmg our relationship xda mcm kwn n we both admit it kmi mmg mcm couple sbb we're both comfortable wif each others n we share everythng. Maybe salah us oso kot but apa slh kmi? Dari dlu lg kmi mcm tu. Hw can we change our relationship? Kmi ignore n pekakkn our telinga tp d more we buat mcm tu, d more u guys seems 2 disrespect our feelings. Ok lg if bnda nie between kita kwn2 BUT nw mcm smua org dh ingt kmi as couple. We both dun wan our parents fikir lain2 sbb our parents tau kmi sgt2 rapat. Just dat jgn bcuz of dis rumours since dlu2 yg x penah lapuk n nw makin truk, kmi pnya relationship kna ruin. We will nvr salahkn ourselves but always remember kmi mmg akan salahkn c pembawa mulut2 ini. I need ur respect n advice on dis matter. Tolong us k? Hentikan smua nie sbb kmi pn ada perasaan. Tolong sebarkan kesakitan hati kmi ini kpd rakan2, kwn2,teman2 dan yg seangkatan ya agar kmi dpt hidup dgn tenang.
4th, disebabkan bnda yg atas nie, I kinda distance myself wif a guy. I noe sum of u duno bout Jay. Long story short. Kmi prnh ada relationship. I just dun wanna think bout nie lg actually but faith brings me to him again. Tapi lepas pa yg jd di atas, sy ckp psl dia pn mcm x guna. U guys seem to dun understand bha. I'm trying my best 2 stay wif Jay n open my heart dkt dia tp korg ckp len plak. Masih lg ckp psl me dgn org len. Korg even x caya i was wif Jay n dis effect my relationship wif him. N now wana noe wht my decision is? To stay wif wht i hve nw. Im leaving Jay. Hw can I stay in a relationship if bnda2 len ada menganggu? Fikir2 la korg. Sy syg dia tp if dia dpt tau psl rumours nie, siapa yg kna? Of coz me n d innocent party kan? Org2 yg menyebarkn rumours? U guys get nuthng. We both yg akan kna. Untuk save both my relationships, I hve to stay frens wif both. Did i did a right thing?

Thursday, March 26, 2009

the story so far

hey!!! its thursday nite and i just wanna update all of you bout my pending stuff!!!hehehe....so far so good guys!!!

okay...first thing first...

1. buy n post my dad's punya pesanan
__havent yet!!!no tyme...seriously!!!___
2. post back my car's doc to miri
__yes...ill be going 2 d post office 2morrow wif daryl__
3. buat my drama's both literature and mandarin scripts
__passed up literature's n mandarin 1 blum abz lg...ok la...ada progress__
4. finish my BEL's outline
__done!!!claps2!!!__
5. revision for my mandarin
__mcm cilaka!!!i did badly!!!:(( repeat la aku nie...__
6. assignment politics
__tinggal nak buat lg__

next...my plan...

1. starts a termendously healthy diet
__berjaya tapi nw tgh mkn fries...hahaha!!!__
2. be serious in my study
__masih blom menyesal...:(__
3. attend all my classes
__ive skipped my admin's class...so stupid__
4. if can i wanna let God decide wht will actually happen to me n him
__ada sign but coudnt get it cuz he keeps on texting me...apakah itu???__

im burning my weekends dis week...i'll be having my criminal's test dis coming saturday n im gonna be at intec sec 17 for lex familia day dis sunday...:( mesti penat...

next week pula:

1. replacement for criminal - monday
2. BEL's presentation...monday kna jmpa mdm bharjan tuk discuss outline...
3. mandarin listening and writing test...mampus la aku...

i'll write more later ok???chao...:)
wish me luck!!!

Saturday, March 21, 2009

A More Serious Life

huhu...in a month time, i will not be enjoying my life as i am nw...:D ye lar...its final odi...i dunno actually pa sbnrnya yg me merepek dis...all i noe im still x in d mood of doing any revision but i noe i must starts from now...

i have lots n lots of stuff to do n it's still pending...:( sad sad sad...wanna cry ja bila me ingat!!!Lord in heaven...please help me...amen...terasa betul odi final dh staring at me...

my pending things to do n wht i should do next week:
1. buy n post my dad's punya pesanan (since january...sorry daddy...)
2. post back my car's doc to miri (i'll be posting it n MUST post it next week)
3. buat my drama's both literature and mandarin scripts <--penangguhan yg TERLAMPAU...
4. finish my BEL's outline (due this wednesday)
5. revision for my mandarin (test dis coming THURSDAY)
6. assignment politics (OMG!!!aku blum dpt question dia lagi)
__i promise to finish ALL of the above by dis coming week...wish me luck k???__

next...my plan after next week...kalau can la...mmg berharap sangat2...*crossing fingers* :
1. starts a termendously healthy diet (im starting now but blum ketat sgt)
2. be serious in my study (NO MORE FOOLING AROUND) starts getting 2 gear 3 odi...finals later masuk gear 5...dun mess wif me ok???
3. attend all my classes...(notes in EVERY CLASS...jangan tidur lagi in E&T's class...x more joking around in Admin's class...BEL...jangan main2 lg...)
4. if can i wanna let God decide wht will actually happen to me n him...give me another sign...i need it Lord...biar pa pun yg akan jadi, i'll accept it with open heart...:) amen...
__conclusion: GET SERIOUS EMMA!!! __

[i'll keep you guys updated if i managed to finish and achieve my goals k???wish me luck!!!xoxo]

Friday, March 13, 2009

thank you!!!

+ never thought i would celebrate my bday with 3 parties...
yup...on my bday(lunch and dinner )
the next day again wif rai n frens or can i say my 2nd family???ahaha!!!
thanks ya u guys... a lot i mean...:D
luv u guys till death!!!

+ i wanna say thanks to:

1. family in miri...
__mummy...luv u so much...thanks 4 all d green lights!!!sayang u so much mummy__
__daddy...mish u love!!!dad!!!i'm still ur lil girl...jgn risau...thanks 4 all d love...mish u dad...i mish all dos butterfly kisses n dos warm hugs...mo nangis me day!!!__
__edgar n derek...sister luv u both...i'll give u guys d whole world if i hve to do so...ed,thanks 4 d cute song!!!mish u mok!!!__
__aunties n uncles...thanks ya!!!u guys mmg cool!!!cuzzies!!!superb thanks!!!mish u all!!!__
__nenek!!!me mish u!!!__

2. my hsemates(enong,ogy,veron n ivy)
__saya sayang korg...byk u guys buat tuk me...im sorry if i've ever hurt all of u...__
__enong: thanks 4 de barbie doll...sa ska...:D kim slm wif freddy k???__
__ogy:thanks 4 d cake...:D syg ko dear...__
__veron:sa syg ko jg...thanks 4 d kisses...:P pizza oso...__
__ivy:shit!!!u bought me dat book???OMG!!!mo menangis me!!!thanks love___

3. my sister, elisa...
__u r d coolest!!!send my kisses 2 abg max oso k???eventho we x ikut plan tu but i really2 menghargai d approval...thanks max...thanks 4 d trust uve given 2 me...ej...thank you dear...ko mmg best___

4. daryl~ku...
__u r so damn sporting!!!dats wht me syg u sesangat...thanks 4 all dos time...eventho ko mmg2 busy n all...sorry if i screamed,mad n fight wif u...thanks 4 d session..if x mmg me still x trust u lg...__

5. raiville, the belated bday girl...
__happy bday my sister in christ...hahaha!!!best kan our cake???thanks 4 d party too rai...me luv u till death...next year we buat lg k???ahahaa!!!dis tyme mesti yg btl2 cool pnya...__

6. nick, my bro...
__thank you bro...same...u r also like ur bro...korg mmg la...aish...duno wht 2 say la...thanks 2 ur dad oso...dia pn kira sporting oso...gud luck 4 ur pilot thingy k???ur my one of my best bros...__

7. aloy, my lalink!!!
__sayam...terima kasih darla...adikku...sa syg ko...u're always thr 4 me x matter wht happen...u r d perfect gift 4 me...walaupn poket kering n kaki sakit...u're still thre!!!__

8. darren my abg...
__eventho ko lmbt but u still come...thanks abg...wish u well in d ps2 game!!!go darren!!!xoxo!!!thanks aa ko jaga us since dkt kedah lg...thanks abg!!!__

9. rai's hsemates...
__u guys pn ROXS!!!cool ok!!!mmg best la!!!thanks korg!!!__

10. azad, danial, afif n ur fren...hehe...duno his name ma...so sorry...
__hehehe...thanks ya!!!eventho me hang2 dat tyme...thanks 4 d 5 mins jmpa2 n gelak2...jan kasitau org k???ahax!!__

11.my frens...
__jane,ayen,georgy n all: thanks 4 d bday wishes k???me luv u all...thanks ya korg...__
__my frens yg wished me thro texts,wishes 4rm fs n fb,wishes yg cakap2 tu...thanks ya!!!ingat jg korg me...thanks you guys!!!syg korg jg...__

12. sapa lg ek???ooo...every1 lar k???
__my juniors yg wished me...thanks u guys...me ingat jg kt korg...syg my adik2...sherer,ryn,rahimi,khairil n all...__

Sunday, March 8, 2009

lame excuses and bullshits!!!

My parents always told me to be good and nice to people around me...love them as much as you love yourself...never make them feel down...they are parts of you...give them the best out of you...

Last few days, this phrase keeps playing in my mind...i have time for people around me...i have time for my family, my bestfriends, my good friend, my 2nd family and my friends...they are part of me...when they need me i'll always be there for them even if im too busy with my own jobs, problems and all...i'll always say, " yeah...sure...i'll be there..." , "okay...what time???" , " i'll be there in no time"...even if im superb busy, i'll always be there also... i'll say, "i'll be there but i'll be a bit late..." or just a short "ok"... as far as i know and remember, i never turn them down yet...did i ever???if i have, please let me know okay???

Now, i have this really bad feeling in me...i start to think and feel the most important individuals seems to forget a person name Emma in their life dictionary...where are you when i really need all of you???i dont need lots of time from all of you...i just want a little ibsy bitsy, tiny little time from you...just an hour...most is only two hours...what did you guys tell me???bullshits and dumb stupid lame excuses...why cant you give me that???OMG!!!im so selfish but i need to spend bit of time also ait with people that i care the most???i deserve it...did i ever give those damn lame bullshits???if i have, please let me know okay???

If you wanna what i really want right now for my birthday, i just need TIME...a bit of time from all of you especially my LOVE ONES...

Thursday, March 5, 2009

my birthday wish(es actually)...hahax!!!

1. aloy playing his violin for me...
> boleh ka tu???hurm... <

2. more tyme 4rm my frens on my bday...
> rozy's job tu kumpul dem...lame excuses n bullshits r x anymore accepted... <

3. veron's job...
> she noes wht she's supposed 2 do...hehehe(evil's laugh) <

4. more money 4rm my daddy...
> i wanna go buy bha dat books!!! just rm80 only bha... <

5. him...:P
> still crossing my fingers tho but its like way too impossible... <

6. Man Utd wins d match against Liverpool dis coming saturday...
> dats my bet okay...if x truk me dis... <

7. well...actually i want my guy frens 2 cook 4 me...:)
> hehe...i still remember dis 1 okay...tersenyum simpul lg mereka ktika me ask dem dis last month <

8. i wanna eat vogok, bereq, as in short pig...
> ooopppssss!!!!!!!OMG!!! <

9. a confession session wif my close ones...
> dun ask me y but i just wanna do...its like ages since i had it wif u guys... <


10. beach!!!
> i mish penang...:( <